Friday, October 26, 2012

The Eagle


Hey folks! I have to do an assignment for one of my teaching courses. So... that’s why this post is a little different.

The reason I want to be a teacher is simple. I want to help enable kids to reach their potential. I want them to realize that they can do amazing things. I want to help give them the skills they need in order to overcome hard things in life. I do not want them to be afraid to try new things, to be themselves, or to reach for the sky. It is important to enable students!

The Eagle
Leotha Wade Slagowski

You are an Eagle, son,
spread your proud wings
and fly!
The sky is yours!
Be not afraid
to rise above the crowd
and soar
beyond the cloud.
So many things
would hold you
to the ground,
but oh, my son,
Eagles were not
meant to be
earthbound.
Let sparrows dart
from tree to tree
or peck at dirt
the whole day through -
the stars on high
beckon you.

You are an Eagle, son,
spread your proud wings
and fly!

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Hi Grandma, I Love You


I loved having root beer floats with my grandma. Dustin and I had many with her when we were living there. When I was younger and would go visit her she always made me a root beer float. I remember one night I brought some of my friends to her house because we were in Centerville. She was SO excited that I brought my friends by. I think I made her whole day... maybe week. She was getting older, so she didn’t physically make us the floats. However, she made sure we made them for ourselves (and her, of course) and enjoyed them. One time I went to grandma’s house and she didn’t have root beer! She made me a Dr. Pepper float instead.

One thing my grandma and I share is a sweet tooth. When she was getting near the end of her life and didn’t really want to eat anything I could ALWAYS get her to eat ice cream or a root beer float. She told me pretty much every day that the ice cream she had at my wedding was the best ever! My grandma has doomed me to a life addicted to sweets. But hey! If I inherited her sweet tooth genes I’m hoping I also inherited the ability to eat endless sweets and stay slender...

It may surprise you that there are NO poems in her book about sweets or root beer... I thought there might at least be one in her limericks, but no. There is one about Licorice, but as we all know, that was her beloved dog... So that doesn’t count. Today’s poem is not about sweets or root beer. I just went off about root beer floats because that's something I loved doing with grandma. But it was the time together that was the best. This week's poem is about a grandma who somehow made every grandchild feel like they were the favorite and most important.

Hi Grandma, I Love You
Leotha Wade Slagowski

I wonder what I did with all my time
before this little grandson of mine
learned to dial my number.
His mother scolds,
and yet, a dozen times a day,
the phone rings and I hear him say,
“Hi grandma, I love you.”
I listen while he tells me
all about Superman, Spiderman and such.
We talk about such special things
as ball and bats and trucks and trains
and fireman’s hats.
And yes, we talk about Jesus.
(Do all five-year-olds love Jesus
so much)?

Grandma, if you are too busy
for this little child,
you are far too busy, far.
Grab this moment
and hold it while you can;
it will not last -
other numbers will replace yours,
oh, so fast
You will never be so much a part
of his young world again.
There will come to his view,
new horizons every day.
What would you give in twenty years
to have him call to say,
“Hi, grandma, I love you.”

I’m grateful to have people in my life who take the time to make me feel loved, special, and important. My grandma was someone who taught me how important it is to love people no matter what. She always made you feel loved, whether it was over the phone or over a root beer float. I guess that’s a reason why so many people loved her!

So I challenge you to make sure those around you feel loved.

Sunday, October 7, 2012

A Lifter


My middle name is Lee. It was given to me in honor of my Grandma, Leotha Wade Slagowski. My grandma passed away this summer, and it was a lot harder than I expected it to be. My husband and I had the privilege to live with my grandma for the last few months of her earthly life. She took us poor newlyweds in until we were going to leave for school. During that time she continued to deteriorate in health and passed away. During Saturday’s Relief Society broadcast for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints I realized something. Not only did I love my grandma as family, but as you serve someone you develop a profound love and care for that person. My husband and I had the opportunity to serve her every day we were there- anything from taking her to church, to making her a root beer float, to just sitting and chatting with her. We truly loved every minute of it, and I miss it immensely.
My grandma was one of the best people I have ever known- ever heard of! Those who knew her know what I am talking about when I say that everyone who met her was better because of the association. This is a link to her online memorial so you can learn about her. http://www.russonmortuary.com/sitemaker/sites/RUSSON1/obit.cgi?user=677204Slagowski While this is a beautiful tribute, there is no way to really capture my grandmother in words. 
About 7-10 years ago my grandma gave all of her grandkids a book of poems she had written for Christmas. I liked it okay then, but I absolutely cherish it now. My grandma was a master with words. She could capture everything from a child’s laugh to her feelings about our Savior, Jesus Christ with a pen and paper. Since my grandma passed away I have found her poetry narrating my life. It’s kind of weird. Something happens and one of her poems just pops into my head. For over a week now I have had this idea consuming me... distracting me from my homework... so I decided I’d better try it out.

In today’s society there is so much negativity, filth, and immorality at our fingertips. There is also so much positive and good, and I want to add to that! I’ve had this feeling that my grandma’s poetry is something that could really lift and inspire people- I know it has lifted and inspired me! I wish more people could read the beautiful words I’ve come to treasure, so I am starting this blog. It is obviously not meant to be an everlasting blog, because the source of poetry is gone and I only have so much to work with. This is also not for critiquing or anything like that. It is just to share some words that have inspired me, and some experiences that relate.

The first poem I would like to share is called A Lifter. I decided to share this first because it is the definition of my grandma.

A Lifter
Oh, let me be a lifter.
May those who cross my path
go on their way
built up in self-esteem,
renewed in self-respect.
Teach me to understand
that each person
is a child of God
with inherent worth
and unlimited potential,
beloved of Him
as much as I.
Help me to accept people
where they are
and how they are,
to always be aware
that tender feelings
need tender care.
Let me be generous
in praise
and quick to recognize
the smallest effort.
May I be the first to say,
“I am so proud of you!”
Oh, let me be a lifter.

My grandma was a lifter, and it is my goal to be one, too. So people, here’s the goal of this blog! I will moderate it, but I’d love friends and family members to contribute. If you have a favorite poem, memory, experience, etc I would love to share it here! Thanks for reading!